Spa Etiquette · Tipping, Dress & Timing

How Much to Tip for a Massage, What to Wear and How Often to Book

Nobody tells you how much to tip for a massage until you're standing at the desk with one shoe on, and the same goes for what to wear to a massage, how early to turn up and whether you're meant to talk. This guide answers the questions guests ask us most: the US tipping convention with a tip table, a dress code for each service, the order a first visit runs in, and a sensible rhythm for coming back.

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In one paragraph

How much to tip for a massage in the US comes to 15 to 20 percent of the full session price, worked out before any discount or gift card. Most Tao Spa guests leave 18 to 20 percent, the tip goes directly to the therapist, and it's appreciated rather than required. Arrive 10 minutes early on a first visit for a short intake.

15–20% is the convention · most guests leave 18–20% · arrive 10 minutes early · every 3–4 weeks for maintenance

Post-treatment tea service in a spa lounge
Tea in the lounge after a 60-minute Therapeutic Massage. You pay at the desk on the way out; the tip is at your discretion and goes directly to the therapist.
Massage oil and fresh linen prepared before a session
Oil goes on skin in every table massage on the menu. The two exceptions are the 60-minute Thai Massage and the 60-minute Healthy Combo Massage, both done clothed and without oil.

By the numbers

Tipping & Etiquette at a glance

DetailNumberNote
US tipping convention15–20%Of the regular session price, before any discount or gift card; 18–20% is what most Tao Spa guests leave
Arrive early10 minutesOn a first visit, for the intake; 5 minutes if you've been before
Clothed, oil-free sessions60 minutes eachThai Massage and Healthy Combo Massage, on both menus
A sensible intervalEvery 3–4 weeksFor everyday stress; every 2–3 weeks through a training block or a heavy desk stretch
Glenside hoursMon–Sun 9:00 AM – 9:00 PM106 N Keswick Ave, Glenside, PA 19038; walk-ins taken in open hours
Google rating4.7 stars277 reviews on the Glenside profile

I · The convention

How much to tip for a massage?

In the US the convention for how much to tip for a massage is 15 to 20 percent of the session price, calculated on the regular price before any discount or gift card comes off. At Tao Spa most guests leave 18 to 20 percent. A tip is appreciated and never required; it goes directly to the therapist, and the amount is your call.

How much to tip for a massage doesn't change with the length or style of the session: a 30-minute Reflexology and a 120-minute Deep Relaxation Massage are tipped at the same rate, and what moves the number is the price. The table does the arithmetic for six example prices chosen because they're easy to work with; they are not lines from our menu, which lives on the Glenside menu and Spring House menu pages.

If you're caught between two figures, round up to the nearer easy number; on a $100 session, $18 and $20 are both a normal tip. The one thing worth getting right is the base figure after a special or a gift card, which the next section covers.

Massage tip calculator: how much to tip for a massage at 15, 18 and 20 percent of six example session prices
Example session price15%18%20%
$60$9$10.80$12
$80$12$14.40$16
$100$15$18$20
$120$18$21.60$24
$150$22.50$27$30
$200$30$36$40

Example prices, not Tao Spa menu lines; work the percentage from the regular price before any discount or gift card.

How much to tip for a massage is a percentage, not a test: 15 to 20 is the convention, 18 to 20 is what most guests leave, and none of it is required.

II · Gift cards, specials, two therapists

How much do you tip a massage therapist on a gift card?

Tip on the full value of the session, not on what you paid at the desk. If a 60-minute session was covered by a gift card, the therapist still did the full hour, so 15 to 20 percent of that session's regular price is the usual tip. Our gift cards never expire and are accepted at both Glenside and Spring House.

If you're buying the card and want it to cover the tip as well, add about 20 percent to the session value; our gift card page lists the amounts people most often choose. If the card doesn't stretch to the tip, the recipient adds it when they pay; either way it reaches the therapist directly.

How much to tip for a massage that was discounted or booked as a special?

Work it out from the regular price. A special, a package or a birthday booking lowers what you pay; it doesn't shorten the session or lighten the work, so the tip is based on what the session normally costs. If you don't know the regular price, ask the desk; nobody minds.

Should you tip for a couples or four hands massage?

Yes, and remember that two therapists are working. In a Candle-Lit Couples Massage each of you has your own therapist for the 60 or 90 minutes, so each is tipped on their half of the booking. In a 60-minute Four Hands Massage two therapists work on one person, so think of the tip as one for each of them, not one for the room.

III · In the room

What to wear to a massage?

Wear whatever is comfortable to arrive in and easy to put back on, because for a table massage you undress to your own comfort level once the therapist has left the room. You're under a sheet the whole time and only the area being worked is uncovered. Some guests keep their underwear on, some don't; both are normal and the draping is the same either way.

What each service needs from you isn't the same across the menu. Oil goes on skin in every table massage, so a shirt you'd mind marking is the wrong shirt; reflexology only needs your lower legs free; a facial starts with a robe; and two sessions on both menus are done fully clothed and without oil.

  • Table massage, from Deep Tissue to Hot Stone and Tao Ashiatsu: undress to your comfort level, draped throughout; oil is used.
  • Thai Massage and Healthy Combo Massage, 60 minutes each: stay dressed in loose, stretchy clothes; no oil.
  • Reflexology, 30 or 60 minutes: trousers that roll above the knee; the 60-minute session includes a herbal foot bath.
  • Facials, 30 to 75 minutes: a robe is provided and your hair is wrapped.
  • Couples sessions: the same as the solo version of the service, each of you on your own table in one room.

What to wear to Thai massage?

Loose, stretchy clothes: leggings or joggers and a t-shirt. Thai Massage is a 60-minute session built on assisted stretching, done clothed and without oil, so what you arrive in is what you're worked in. Jeans, belts and anything stiff get in the way. Our Thai massage guide walks through the session; the same dress code applies to the Healthy Combo Massage, also clothed and oil-free.

IV · The first ten minutes

How early should you arrive, and what happens at intake?

Arrive about 10 minutes before a first appointment and 5 minutes before a return visit. The time is for a short intake rather than paperwork: the therapist needs to know where the tension sits, how firm you like pressure and whether anything should be avoided before they can plan the session. Late arrivals, the 2-hour cancellation notice and payment are covered on our FAQ page.

A first visit runs in this order.

  1. Check in. Say whether you've booked or walked in; at Glenside, walk-ins are taken 9 AM to 9 PM any day when a therapist is free.
  2. Intake. A few questions about pressure, problem areas, injuries, recent surgery, pregnancy and anything you'd rather we left alone. The session is built from what you say here.
  3. Settle in. The therapist steps out, you undress to your comfort level (or stay dressed for Thai and Healthy Combo), lie under the sheet, and they knock before coming back.
  4. The first pressure check. Expect to be asked early whether the pressure is right, and again at each new area. One word is enough.
  5. The finish. The session ends on time; you dress at your own pace and pay at the desk on the way out, adding a tip if you'd like.
  6. Book again, or don't. There's no membership and nobody will suggest a package; the desk can hold a slot 3 or 4 weeks out.

V · Frequency

How often should you get a massage?

Every 3 to 4 weeks is the rhythm most of our regulars settle into for everyday stress and stiffness, and every 2 to 3 weeks suits a heavy training block or a long stretch at a desk. There's no researched ideal schedule. The NCCIH summarises the evidence as mostly short-term benefit for things like pain and stress, which argues for a steady routine over an occasional marathon session.

The practical answer is a budget and a calendar. Because we sell no memberships, the interval is yours to change whenever life does. Two 60-minute sessions a month tend to hold a desk-worker's shoulders better than one 120-minute Deep Relaxation Massage every two months, because the tension has less time to rebuild. If deep work leaves you tender for more than a day or two, stretch the gap or ask for lighter work.

How often should you get a massage: a starting point by goal
Your goalA sensible intervalSession that fitsAdjust if
Everyday stress and stiffnessEvery 3–4 weeks60-minute Therapeutic or Hot Stone MassageTight again within a fortnight: shorten the gap
Training load or long desk hoursEvery 2–3 weeks30 or 90-minute Deep Tissue MassageSore past two days: lengthen the gap or ease the pressure
A one-off resetOnce, when you need it90-minute Candle-Lit Couples or 120-minute Deep Relaxation MassageBack within the month: you're a regular, so pick a rhythm
Pregnancy, a diagnosed condition or recent surgeryAsk your doctor first60-minute Prenatal Massage, with your doctor's go-aheadYour health changes: tell the desk at the next intake

The intervals are what our guests settle into, not clinical guidance. The Mayo Clinic lists the situations where any massage should wait for a doctor's go-ahead.

VI · Inside the room

Should you talk during a massage, and what if the pressure is wrong?

Talk if you want to and stay quiet if you'd rather; the therapist follows your lead, and silence is never read as rude. The one thing we do need to hear about is pressure: if it's too firm or too light, say so the moment you notice. The NCCIH gives the same advice: tell your therapist about any discomfort straight away.

What about your phone?

Silence it before you walk into the room and leave it in your bag. A vibrating phone is loud in a quiet room, and checking it mid-session breaks the hour you've set aside for yourself. If you're on call, tell the therapist at intake so a ring isn't a surprise.

What do you do if the pressure is wrong?

Say "lighter" or "firmer" and nothing more is needed. Deep work should feel like a good ache, never a wince; the Mayo Clinic is plain that massage shouldn't ordinarily be painful and that pain during a session is the signal to speak up. The therapist can't feel what you feel, so don't wait for the check-in.

VII · Before you book

What else is worth knowing before a first visit to Tao Spa?

Both storefronts take walk-ins during open hours and share one phone line, (215) 824-8585. Glenside, at 106 N Keswick Ave, is open 9 AM to 9 PM daily; Spring House, at 752 N Bethlehem Pike, opens 10 AM to 9 PM and is closed Tuesday. Appointments are recommended for 90-minute sessions, couples sessions and weekend evenings; the walk-in page explains how a same-day visit works.

Knowing how much to tip for a massage is the easy part. Cash is preferred because the listed prices are cash rates, there are no memberships, and a call or text is the fastest way to ask anything this guide hasn't covered. Once the session is over, our massage aftercare guide takes over: water, a slow afternoon, and why you might be sore tomorrow.

Session lengths at Tao Spa Glenside

Session lengths this guide refers to, from the Glenside menu

ServiceLengthMenu section
Healthy Combo Massage60minTao's Specials
Thai Massage60minMassage Bodywork
Candle-Lit Couples Massage60minCouples & Four Hands
Couples Healthy Combo Massage60minCouples & Four Hands
Four Hands Massage60minCouples & Four Hands
Reflexology30minReflexology & Foot
Hydration Facial60minFacial Services
Mini Facial30minFacial Services

Tip on the regular price of whichever line you book; add-ons are tipped on the combined total.

Key facts

Where to book: Tao Spa Glenside at a glance

Address106 N Keswick Ave, Glenside, PA 19038
Phone(215) 824-8585
HoursMon–Sun 9:00 AM – 9:00 PM
Google rating4.7 stars from 277 reviews
Session lengths15 · 25 · 30 · 50 · 60 · 75 · 90 · 100 · 120 · 360 minutes
Menu size45 bookable services across 8 categories
Other locationTao Spa Spring House — 752 N Bethlehem Pike, Spring House, PA 19477
Other location hoursMon–Sun 10:00 AM – 9:00 PM (Closed Tuesday)

What each service asks you to wear

Three sessions with three different dress codes: the clothed Thai mat, the rolled-up trousers of reflexology, and the robe of a facial.

Thai massage assisted stretch performed on a floor mat
Thai Massage runs 60 minutes, clothed and without oil, so loose, stretchy clothing is the dress code.
Herbal chamomile foot soak before a reflexology treatment
The 60-minute Reflexology session includes a herbal foot bath; trousers that roll above the knee make it easy.
Woman in a white robe and headband resting with her eyes closed before a facial
A robe and hair wrap are provided for every facial on the menu, from the 30-minute Mini Facial to the 75-minute Collin Hydrating Lifting Facial.

Treatment photography is illustrative of the services described.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is there a massage tip calculator for a 90-minute session?

The table above is the calculator; the percentage doesn't change with length, so a 90-minute session is tipped at the same 15 to 20 percent as a 30-minute one. On a $150 example price that's $22.50 at 15 percent, $27 at 18 and $30 at 20. Multiply the menu price for your session and round to whatever's easy.

Is it rude to ask the front desk how much to tip for a massage?

Not at all; it's one of the most common questions we get, and the answer is the same every time: 15 to 20 percent of the regular session price is the US convention, most guests here leave 18 to 20, and none of it is required. Asking beats guessing.

Should you tip more for deep tissue or a 120-minute session?

No higher percentage is expected: how much to tip for a massage scales with the price, and the price of a 90-minute Deep Tissue Massage or a 120-minute Deep Relaxation Massage already reflects the extra time. Some guests round up after a session that shifted something they'd carried for weeks; that's a kindness, not a rule.

Do you tip for a facial, reflexology or an add-on the same way?

Yes. The same 15 to 20 percent convention applies to a 60-minute Hydration Facial, a 30-minute Reflexology and a 15-minute add-on such as cupping or gua sha, worked out on each one's price. When an add-on is attached to a massage, tip on the combined total.

What should you wear to a couples massage?

The same as for a solo table massage: each of you undresses to your own comfort level on your own table, under your own draping. If one or both of you would rather stay dressed, the 60-minute Couples Healthy Combo Massage is done clothed and without oil, so loose, stretchy clothing is all it needs.

Can you keep your underwear on during a massage?

Yes, and plenty of guests do. The therapist works around whatever you leave on, and the draping covers everything except the area being worked regardless. The only practical difference is that oil can mark fabric, so wear something you don't mind getting oil on.

Is once a month often enough for a massage to make a difference?

For most people, yes. A 60-minute session every 3 to 4 weeks is the rhythm our regulars settle into and the one we'd suggest first. What a session gives you is short-term relief that fades over a few weeks, so monthly keeps the baseline from creeping back up; if a month feels too long, shorten the gap.

Should you shower before a massage?

If you can, yes, though it isn't required. Clean skin takes oil better, you'll feel more comfortable on the table, and it's a small courtesy to the therapist. Skip heavy lotion or perfume afterwards: lotion makes the skin slippery in the wrong way, and strong scent lingers in a small room for the next guest.

Sources and further reading

What we read before writing this guide

Tao Spa is a relaxation and wellness spa, not a medical provider. Our sessions support relaxation and general well-being; they do not diagnose, treat or cure any condition. Talk with your doctor about persistent pain, swelling or skin changes, and tell us about any health condition before your session.

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Plan your visit

How do I book a massage at Tao Spa?

Book a massage at Tao Spa in 4 steps: pick Glenside or Spring House, choose a 30, 60, 90 or 120-minute session, reserve online or call (215) 824-8585, then arrive 10 minutes early. Walk-ins are welcome at both Pennsylvania locations whenever a therapist is free, and gift cards are valid at either address.

  1. Choose your location. Glenside is at 106 N Keswick Ave, Glenside, PA 19038, open Mon–Sun 9:00 AM – 9:00 PM. Spring House is at 752 N Bethlehem Pike, Spring House, PA 19477, open Mon–Sun 10:00 AM – 9:00 PM (Closed Tuesday).
  2. Pick a treatment and a session length. Massage, reflexology and facials run 30, 60, 90 or 120 minutes; couples rooms are booked in 60, 75 or 90-minute blocks. Not sure what you need? Our full service menu lists every treatment with its length.
  3. Reserve online, call or text (215) 824-8585. Weekend evenings and couples rooms fill first, so book 2 to 3 days ahead for those slots. Walk-ins are taken any time a therapist is open.
  4. Arrive 10 minutes early. A first visit starts with a short intake about pressure preference, problem areas and any health notes. Gift cards never expire and work at both locations.